There was a time when an offense occurred, or someone trespassed against me. I needed the offender to feel the dominance and intellectual superiority of my wrath.
Ultimately people define themselves with the evidence of their actions. But, at the same time, we define ourselves while producing evidence of how we choose to respond.
Only the light of truth will dismantle the darkness of deceit within the hearts of evil. Good only requires the silence of a mind in prayer while waiting for the will of God to manifest around us.